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“…And they [women] have rights [over their husbands] similar
to those over them according to what is reasonable…” (Quran 2:228)
In sum, the rights of the wife or the obligations of the husband
include, among others, the following:
(1) Receiving her
proper dower: God says:
“And give the women their dower with a good heart; but if
they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, take it and
enjoy it without fear of any harm.” (Quran 4:4)
(2) Being fully and
completely financially maintained by her husband: God says:
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because
God has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support
them from their means…” (Quran 4:34)
Furthermore, in a hadeeth recorded by al-Bukhari and Muslim,
the Prophet, may the mercy and blessings of God be upon him, told Hind bint
Utbah, when she complained that her husband (Abu Sufyan) was very stingy and
was not maintaining her and she asked if she could take from his wealth without
his knowledge:
“Take what is sufficient for you and your child, according
to what is customary.”
(3) Being treated in
a proper and kind manner: God states:
“…And consort with your wives in a goodly manner, for if you
dislike them, it may well be that you dislike something which God might yet
make a source of abundant good” (Quran 4:19)
(4) Having the right
to sexual intercourse: In the Sahih of Ibn Hibban there is the following
narration:
The wife of Uthman ibn Madh’oon complained to the Messenger
of God that her husband had no need for women.
During the day, he would fast and at night, he would pray. The Prophet asked him, “Am I not the best
example for you to follow?” He answered,
“Certainly, may my father and mother be sacrificed for you.” The Messenger of
God then told him, “As for you, you pray during the night and you fast during
the day. Certainly, your wife has a
right upon you. And your body has a
right upon you. So pray and sleep and
fast and break your fast.”
(5) Having the right
to “privacy”: Note the following hadeeth of the Prophet:
“Is there any man among you who goes to his wife, closes the
door behind then, covers themselves, and conceals themselves by God’s
concealing.” They said, “Yes.” He then said, “Then he sits after that [with
others] and he says, ‘I did this and that.’”
They were silent. He then turned
to the women and said, “Do you any of you talk about such things?” They were also silent. Then a young girl came up on his toes so the
Prophet could see her and hear her and she said, “O Messenger of God, they [the
men] certainly talk about it and they [the women] also talk about it.” He said,
“Do you know what they are like? They
are like a female devil who met a devil in the street and they satisfied their
desires with the people looking on.”[1]
(6) The right to
being taught or learning her religion.
On the other hand, the rights of the husband or the
responsibilities of the women include:
(1) Being the head of
the household: God has said:
“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because
God has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support
them from their means…” (Quran 4:34)
Although this is usually stated as a right of the husband,
it is actually a heavy responsibility on his shoulders, as it means that he has
the responsibility to guide his family and keep them along the straight path.
(2) Having the right
to be obeyed: This goes with the first right.
A person cannot be the head of something if he has no authority.
(3) Having his wife
answer his call to meet his sexual needs.
(4) That the wife
will not allow anyone in his house except by his permission: In a hadeeth
recorded in al-Bukhari and Muslim, the Messenger of God said:
“Do not allow anyone into his house except by permission.”
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